My Lady, Are You Ready To Settle Down In Marriage Soonest, The Choice Is Yours

As 2015 is half year gone, many ladies had secured their dream life partner and matched to the altar, others are still going to march to the altar these remaining months of the year 2015, but as for you, what is your own marital agenda?

You did not marry this year or is marrying this year because that dream man did not appear or that he appeared, but you failed the test or did not meet up with his taste or the qualities the man desired. In other words, there may be some strong reasons why you will not get a man marry you this year. Therefore, in other not to miss out of those who will be marching to the altar soonest, tackle the following issues:


If settling down in marriage soonest is your desire, you must make an effort to make it a reality. First you must ask yourself, why am I not married, am I not marriageable? If am marriageable why are men not showing interest in marrying me? Moreover, why are men who show interest in me marrying me suddenly disappear and never show interest again but instead went ahead to marry someone else? In addition to answering these questions, you need to take actions with the following issues;

First is to Tackle the issue of spirit husband: I said it and will continue to emphasize it, one of the issues that restraints or what is preventing many ladies from getting married is spirit husband. You never can tell, so don’t overrule it or wave it aside as nonsense because this could be the cause why you are not married yet.

This I said this going by the testimony I received recently in my email of a lady who wrote me to testify that after she went for deliverance, she got married after three months to a man she met at the venue of her deliverance in Abuja. See her testimony in the article, “thank GOD I finally got married at last”.

So I wish to counsel you, why not do what I call spiritual x-ray or check up as to be double assured that you don’t have a spirit husband following you around and preventing men from accepting to marry you. You do this by subjecting or presenting yourself for deliverance which is the first thing you should do if marching to the altar in 2015 is your utmost desire.

Secondly is to Fine tune your character: My lady, your character should be your greatest asset if securing a life partner is your desire. What some ladies fail to realize is that the first thing men look for in a lady they desire to marry is her character. Yet some ladies never pay attention to it but are busy projecting and promoting their beauty.

I want you to know one thing, beauty alone may never fetch you a husband that is why some beautiful ladies are still single while some other ladies that may not look beautiful, men are struggling to marry them. As one musician rightly puts it, “beauty is not edible”. Even the BIBLE equally puts it this way in Proverbs 31:30 “Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.”

So I counsel you, ensure that there is no trait in your character that are repulsive that are repelling men away from seeking for your hands in marriage.

Thirdly, Prove to men that you are an asset and not a liability.After fine tuning your character and have started drawing notable men and eligible husbands, the next thing is to prove to men that you are an asset, not a liability. Ladies who are of quality are really an asset to men and that is the kind that men wish to marry while as there are ladies who are total liabilities that men are afraid to marry them.

Fourthly, realize that first impression on first date counts and matters a lot. On your first date, be conscious of your actions and demands never behave as if you have never eaten a certain type of food or drank certain kind of drink.

I said this because I once confronted a young man I demanded to know the reason why he dropped the lady he wanted to marry for another lady, the man reported that the former lady was demanding money from him to do a Brazilian Hairdo. That even if he has the money, that he will not spend such kind of money just to do hair. So be conscious of the series of demands you make on the man who shows interest to marry you.

Finally the kind of wedding ceremony should not be an issue: After all said and done, a man accepts to marry you, I counsel you to be conscious of the kind of man that is marrying you and the resources available to his disposal. I said this because a lady nearly committed suicide because the wedding gown and other materials the man got for her wedding was later used by another lady instead of her.

What happened was the man said that he can’t afford the kind of wedding ceremony she was expecting from him. While the man was trying to raise money to execute the kind of wedding ceremony the lady was expecting and insisting on, the man met another lady who he feels was better which he eventually married in place of the former lady. So don’t lose out because of a wedding ceremony, because the level of your wedding ceremony does not determine how success or failure your marriage will be.

If you are a single lady and have read this post, I am praying for you and I am interested to see you get married soon. Moreover, if you have gotten anything from the post, show you are not selfish by sharing this post with your followers. A lady who I shared her testimony above said she got to know about this website from her friend. Will that be said of you?

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