If you ask an average lady, she will tell you that her innermost heart desire is to marry and settle down with the man of her dream. However, other ladies have no dream husband as they are ready to marry any man that comes along their way.I am concerned because, at a certain age, some ladies get frustrated in life if no man is fort coming to marry them. I went to see someone in a hospital something ago and met a lady they rushed to the hospital because she fainted when she learnt that the man she was expecting to marry her abandoned her and married another lady she knew. Also, On 11 February 2015, the telegraph, a UK daily newspaper carried a sad news of a young woman who killed herself after she struggled with the fact she was unmarried and had no children by the age of 30.
In this article, therefore, we will be exploring the secrets for locating the man of your dream. Many ladies are still single because no man has ever asked for their hands in marriage. In the first instance, what is your dream husband? You must have a dream husband as it is the type of your dream husband that influences your packaging as you package yourself for the dream husband to find you.
Number one secret, therefore, is to fill the longing in the heart of a man. Every man has a longing in his heart or for better understanding an opening which some call a missing rib. This opening can only be filled by a woman, and once a man finds a woman who fills that opening, he sigh a sigh of relief like Adam in the Bible, this is the bone of my bone and a flesh of my flesh.
Once a man sees a woman who fills this longing, the opening in his heart will start closing up against other ladies and he will stick to that lady. But if a man while relating with you the longing instead of closing up start getting wide, the man will never accept to marry you at the end. The secret, therefore, is to package yourself as to fill that opening in a man’s heart, once a man feel that he is fulfilled whenever he is with you, he will do everything to bring you in as a wife.
The second secret, responsible men are surely looking for responsible women as wives.Once a man proves you to be a responsible lady, you have gotten his first attention that he begins to take notice of you and consideration that you could be a marriageable type. Your lifestyle, type of hair do you put on, type of friends you keep, type of clothes you puts on and many more all goes to prove how responsible you are. A Lady posed topless day after Nigeria match with Argentina claiming she is dedicating it to Ahmed Musa, that action to me is nothing but an irresponsible action.
The third secret is try to make a man happy and fulfilled: Believe it or not, a man wants to marry a woman who will keep him happy and fulfilled; who he will be proud to introduce as his wife. As a lady, when a man shows interest in you, try all the time to keep him happy especially any time he comes in contact with you. Note that I am not referring to jumping into bed with him to make him happy as some ladies do, thinking that this will get the man to marry her. In fact, I used to say it, a man who conquers you in bed before proposing to you may never propose again.
Secret number four, prove to a man that you are an asset, not a liability. Believe me, no man wish to bring a woman who is a liability and keep in a house as a wife. The bitter truth is that some ladies are but total liability and if a man judges you to be a liability, he may never ask for your hands in marriage.
Secret number five, realize that you are not to search for a man, it is the man that should search for you. All that is required of you is to prepare yourself and make yourself available and easy for the man to find you. One thing you should know is that a man searching for a wife, he will be looking for certain qualities in a lady. Once you package yourself and he finds those qualities in you, he will rush to marry you.
My lady, I pray for you and it is my innermost desire to see you marry. If you have read this article, and you wish that I pray an agreement prayer with you or have a question, then contact me through my email address or facebook for a chart.
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GOD bless you; see you soon getting married to your dream husband, shalom
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