Tips On How to Enjoy Sweet And EverGreen Marriage: part one.

This is the first part of the series, “tips on how to live a sweet and evergreen marriage”. Getting married may not be the ultimate but what happened after our marriage. You need to do something to sustain that marriage as you have entered a big institution called marriage institution.

It is said that marriage is an institution that those outside are craving to enter while those inside are craving to get out. In this institution, some are enjoying their marriage while some are enduring their marriage.

To this end, you need to pay attention to these simple tips that will help you enjoy your married life instead of enduring it. Many marriages are collapsing today simply due to ignorance; ignorance in the sense that one or both parties don’t know the secrets of what it takes for a sustained sweet marriage or marriage evergreen.

(1)Tips number one is directed to the women: as a woman, know those things that attracted you to your husband in the first place and build upon those things. Do you know that before your husband saw you and got interested to marry you, something may have attracted you to him? It may be your shape or structure, it may be the way you dress, it may the way you always comport yourself, and it may even be your character or your attitude.

Whatever those things (I said things not thing as it may be more than one thing) that attracted you to the man in the first place, try to build upon those things. Some may say they didn’t know those things, but you do; only that you may have forgotten or not paying attention when the man used to tell you about those things before you people got married. Those comments as “I like the way you smile”, “I like the way you dress”, “I like your hairdo”, “I like your cooking” etc. Whatever be the case, know those things and build upon them, that is, to build upon them means to improve on them.

What if sincerely you don’t know those things? Then jokingly ask the man what are those things he likes about you that attracted you to him? Equally carry out a direct and indirect investigation of what the man likes about you. Not only those things that attracted you to him but those things he likes about you presently and builds or improves on those things and you will see his love for you continue to increase day by day.

Believe me, when you are no longer appealing to your husband, his love for you will begin to dwindle. A man recently complained that he is married to a stranger and not to a lady he saw few years ago and admired and decided to marry her. According to him, the woman he saw few years ago was elegant, smart and beautiful but currently the woman he has in his house as a wife is shapeless and looks like old grandma.

Tips number two is directed to the men: As a man, if you want to see your marriage continue to blossom, then note those things that attracted your wife to you in the first place and try to maintain those things. What are those things that attracted the lady to you in the first place or what are those things you most like about her presently? You need to be confessing those things to her; it will help her to start building upon those things.

I tell you the truth, form the habit of confessing to her what you like about her, it helps to build her up. You should as well do everything to maintain those things. Do you really want to see your woman back in form? Then don’t neglect or fail to maintain those things you saw in her that attracted her to you.

The love between a couple will surely sour if the man no longer sees those things he saw in the woman that attracted her to him. The fault is from both sides, the woman failed to build or improve on those things that attracted her to the man. And the man failed to maintain those things he saw in the woman that attracted her to him.
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